intolerance...
Hmmm... Sometimes I really wonder about people, especially bloggers.
I make no bones about the fact that I'm not addicted to any particular political party since there is no party which matches my evolving personal philosophy. I'm fiscally conservative (small government, limited intervention, hate the nanny state), I believe strongly in personal rights and personal responsibilities but I am socially tolerant. I don't use the word 'progressive' because it has been hijacked by a political movement who seem determined to destroy society but that's a whole other subject.
Anyway, before I lose focus, I enjoy reading about and discussing politics but I also like reading and discussing other subjects as well... a wide range of subjects, in fact, but I've always like philosophy.
I read a thread on a blog which posed three moral conundrums, each with simple choice answers. A couple of people had written their answers and justifications thereof. I decided to post my opinion. The blogger challenged my opinion and we exchanged a couple of posts. I found some of the notions offered interesting but some didn't make sense to me so I said as much. Long story short, the blogger posted a rather rambling diatribe, suggesting I was putting words into the blogger's mouth and if I didn't like what I found, the blogger would prefer that I didn't come around.
I re-read my posts and the replies. Nope, I wasn't rude or offensive... but it certainly appeared this individual was intolerant of anyone disagreeing and there was emotional investment in the points which the blogger made so by disagreeing or dismissing those arguments, I was offending the individual. Being a good Canadian, I apologized and I suspect I won't bother going to that blog again. I didn't offend intentionally but that point is moot, I suppose.
Think got me thinking about intolerance. If there's one thing I can't stand it's intolerance. Yes, I appreciate the irony in that statement; it was written in good humour.
People in general and bloggers in particular seem to have a predisposition to be intolerant of anything/anyone they don't agree with or understand. At several blogs which I visit, it's not unusual for bloggers to make outrageously insulting replies and to engage in personal attacks. I don't generally engage in such activities. I'm no angel and I'm not above telling someone what I think of their idea(s) but I generally try to concentrate on the concept, not the person.
Blogging, with it's relative anonymity, tends to bring out the worst in people. Bulletin boards, forums and internet chat rooms are likewise afflicted. Keyboard tigers abound. Since this is still a relatively "new" form of communication and the generally harsh and subjective medium, it's natural to see some growing pains, I suppose. Emoticons give some graphic means of expressing non-verbal 'clues' but they're not always available.
I can't relate how tired I am of reading blogger bemoaning the lack of discussion or debate when they're completely intolerant of either discussion or debate. Then there's the all-knowing trolls who mock and deride the efforts of others to try to articulate their thoughts. Then there's the "chirpers" who chirp in a snarky comment and then disappear.
So what can one do or so to the intolerant to cause them to reassess their behaviour? I don't think there is a right answer. If I ever figure one out, I shall bottle the results and sell it.
As bloggers mature (eternal optimist) hopefully the level of communication will improve.
-Mac
I make no bones about the fact that I'm not addicted to any particular political party since there is no party which matches my evolving personal philosophy. I'm fiscally conservative (small government, limited intervention, hate the nanny state), I believe strongly in personal rights and personal responsibilities but I am socially tolerant. I don't use the word 'progressive' because it has been hijacked by a political movement who seem determined to destroy society but that's a whole other subject.
Anyway, before I lose focus, I enjoy reading about and discussing politics but I also like reading and discussing other subjects as well... a wide range of subjects, in fact, but I've always like philosophy.
I read a thread on a blog which posed three moral conundrums, each with simple choice answers. A couple of people had written their answers and justifications thereof. I decided to post my opinion. The blogger challenged my opinion and we exchanged a couple of posts. I found some of the notions offered interesting but some didn't make sense to me so I said as much. Long story short, the blogger posted a rather rambling diatribe, suggesting I was putting words into the blogger's mouth and if I didn't like what I found, the blogger would prefer that I didn't come around.
I re-read my posts and the replies. Nope, I wasn't rude or offensive... but it certainly appeared this individual was intolerant of anyone disagreeing and there was emotional investment in the points which the blogger made so by disagreeing or dismissing those arguments, I was offending the individual. Being a good Canadian, I apologized and I suspect I won't bother going to that blog again. I didn't offend intentionally but that point is moot, I suppose.
Think got me thinking about intolerance. If there's one thing I can't stand it's intolerance. Yes, I appreciate the irony in that statement; it was written in good humour.
People in general and bloggers in particular seem to have a predisposition to be intolerant of anything/anyone they don't agree with or understand. At several blogs which I visit, it's not unusual for bloggers to make outrageously insulting replies and to engage in personal attacks. I don't generally engage in such activities. I'm no angel and I'm not above telling someone what I think of their idea(s) but I generally try to concentrate on the concept, not the person.
Blogging, with it's relative anonymity, tends to bring out the worst in people. Bulletin boards, forums and internet chat rooms are likewise afflicted. Keyboard tigers abound. Since this is still a relatively "new" form of communication and the generally harsh and subjective medium, it's natural to see some growing pains, I suppose. Emoticons give some graphic means of expressing non-verbal 'clues' but they're not always available.
I can't relate how tired I am of reading blogger bemoaning the lack of discussion or debate when they're completely intolerant of either discussion or debate. Then there's the all-knowing trolls who mock and deride the efforts of others to try to articulate their thoughts. Then there's the "chirpers" who chirp in a snarky comment and then disappear.
So what can one do or so to the intolerant to cause them to reassess their behaviour? I don't think there is a right answer. If I ever figure one out, I shall bottle the results and sell it.
As bloggers mature (eternal optimist) hopefully the level of communication will improve.
-Mac
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